When I was a little girl, I had a very important job: Flashlight Holder.

If you grew up with a “handy” parent, you know the role well. It wasn’t always the easiest gig. Sometimes, when a bolt was stuck or a part wouldn’t fit, a few “choice words” might fly! But through those long evenings, I watched my dad fix absolutely everything. From washing machines and dryers to kitchen sinks, painting projects, and even building rabbit huts—if it was broken, he could fix it.

More Than Just Holding a Light

At the time, I didn’t realize I was in a masterclass for life. Whether I was handing him a specific wrench or holding a tool steady while he worked under the car, I was absorbing more than just mechanical knowledge. The greatest gift he game me from these experiences was the courage to try.

Passing It On

When my own kids were growing up, I found myself leaning on those memories. I’ve snaked drains all by myself—saving a small fortune on plumbers in the process—simply because my dad taught me not to be afraid of the task.

I can’t come close to fixing every single thing my dad could, but I can certainly try. Those “life skills” were tucked away in the glow of a flashlight, and I’m so grateful for that time spent by his side.

What was your “first job” helping out at home? I’d love to hear what lessons stuck with you. Have a wonderful day!