Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about what I truly want in my life. I’ve been gradually putting my energy into the things that bring me inner peace and joy. Sometimes, this doesn’t go exactly as planned. My children, for example, are my greatest source of joy. They are grown and have their own lives. I’m fortunate that they spend time with me, but of course, not as much as I would like.

With that in mind, I’ve been focusing on the relationships that matter most. I had to go deep and reflect on which relationships truly deserve a place at the top of my list: my children, my siblings, and my dearest friends. That doesn’t mean I’m closing the door to new connections. I will always welcome new relationships into my life. But I also want to fully live in the present with the people I already have. They deserve my attention, my presence, and the reminder that they are important to me.

I don’t know about anyone else, but sometimes life can consume me so completely that I forget to make time for others. A simple phone call, a text, or a handwritten card can make a world of difference. I love sending cards because there’s something joyful about opening the mailbox and finding a thoughtful message meant just for you. In a world full of packages and things, a card or a kind gesture is priceless.

I’ve experienced loss—my grandparents, parents, and two siblings have passed away. These experiences have taught me to celebrate the loved ones I still have and to embrace new experiences with open arms. At the same time, I’ve learned to honor my need for solitude. I cherish quiet moments alone, whether walking, sitting on my balcony, or simply observing the world around me. I also love shared experiences—a walk with a friend or a brief conversation with someone who crosses my path.

As I get older, my values have evolved. I live a comfortable life with things that bring ease and convenience, but the greatest joy comes from the people in my life. My relationships are the treasures I hold most dearly, and I want to make sure they know it.